I blog for a lot of reasons. One of them is in hopes to spark a reaction in people that may start a conversation or cause action. I know a lot of men who view my blog are closeted & keep their attraction to transwomen discreet or downlo. I also know that many misunderstand my statements since there are the typical Transvesties & CDs out here condoning or pandering to these men SOLELY for their money but still feel the same way I do. I don’t hate ANYONE. If what you do isn’t hurting anyone with lies, deceit or any mental or physical harm then by all means DO YOU! I’m an entertainer, YES but I’m also a transgender woman in REAL LIFE. Been one Over 18yrs that’s over half my lifetime. I’ve only been an entertainer for almost 6yrs. I CHOSE to be an entertainer (To meet Men) OUTSIDE of what I do for work in real life.
I get msgs from many closeted men who say they DONT pay TS for attention. THOSE are the type that annoy me & that I may seem to speak negative about. NOT ALL DISCREET MEN. So since those men are closeted & not seeking anything more than secret sex as well then what separates them from the ones who DO pay for their comfort & discretion or show support to entertainers? The Difference: The lies they tell to get why they want & how they leave people feeling about dealing with them after it ENDS . Being downlo or closeted is set up to only benefit the closeted man. Granted, gay men LOVE dl men. That includes transvestites & crossdressers who are men dressing up for sex with secretive men who live straight lives. Many men group us ALL in the same bunch so a TS separates herself how she sees fit. May sound silly to some but the reaction from the MEN says a lot about the state of things. Some get mad cause u CAN charge. Some feel angry cause they are attracted & feel entitled to anything they like lol. Or feel TS are obligated to sleep with closeted men for free & fun with no wants for anything more for themselves. Just a one-sided way of thinking all around.
Then, there’s the double standard about being a “prostitute” or “whore” in an attempt to shame TS women into behaving the way downlo/ closeted men would like. Yet we BOTH have dicks & closeted men HATE being labeled Tranny Chasers. Guys don’t shame their male friends who fuck random girls for fun cause she was cute lol. But u should see the barrage of insults any TS that doesn’t cater to a random stranger for free gets lmfao! That’s just childish pouting from not getting your way lol. Perfectly ignorable lol.
Either way, I wanna get men thinking about their OWN sexuality. Instead of seekin transsexuals to lean on. You are bisexual RIGHT NOW WHEREVER U ARE without a naked TS in front of you lol. That’s something u should handle on your own so that as a man when you meet a TS woman you may be considered more than a tranny chaser. Once I saw that the majority of men like TS in private I decided I should be a Private Companion since I actually like meeting & being sensual not just some TS they hit up in their free time when they want somethin different while calling me their “friend”. That was YEARS ago & since I haven’t had the same issues. I was missing out on dates, trips & gifts thinking one of these closeted men were gonna one day miraculously come out the closet & we’d get married & adopt a kid lol! Haven’t been sad or lonely & haven’t been lacking for sex since either. I made a choice for ME.
- How long are u gonna creep on the downlo?
- why do u expect a Ts to have sex with u AND keep your secret when u haven’t done or offered to do anything for HER? Asking what she wants doesn’t count because she can simply post an ad with her “wants” & skip all the drama & uncomfortable negotiation.
If all men were brave, open & honest about who they are & not living a lie to avoid stigma things could be a lot better. But I don’t force people to do anything… But unfortunately I have to set my life up to benefit ME. I give alot of myself & talents to the world so setting up my own system that doesn’t hurt anyone, not lying or stealing from anyone so I feel fine! How do you feel about YOUR situation? You know it’s something u can change right? Your character is in YOUR hands. Xoxo Gabby
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